好久没有写日记了。

忙,超忙,忙到上厕所都是奔跑状态。一直知道身边的人会觉得我很不同,但上星期还是惊奇地获悉身边的同事觉得我是“异形”。为什么说我是异形呢?因为我经常早上未到8点就已经来到公司上班,晚上经常加班到很晚,回到家也继续工作,但甚少听到我说累字。

说实在的,异形跟与众不同对我来说含义还是不一样的,不过不管怎样,乐观的我就当这是对我努力工作的一种认可吧。

前段时间其实思维上受到很大的冲击,也真的是很深刻地意识到了自己存在的问题和改进的方向。

深圳之行

Albert Ching

Successful people looks ahead, not just what it is  now, but what it could and what it will be  later in 5 years, 10 years.

They see possibilities of the world, possibilities of the industry and then be the leader of the evolution. It’s a bit like Carly Fiorina, she sees the possibilities of people, and help people  see it, thus motivate people around.

Relevant Thinking:

Think Out of the Box and Habitize it!

山西之行

About Balance and 冲

Career is not like acquiring knowledge in school. Why?

  • Books are there
  • Opportunities won’t knock your door twice. And people have on average 7 opportunities in a life time.

Therefore, we need to 冲 at our best age and seize one opportunity. And if we don’t catch one at this age, we may probably have less of them when we get older.

You need to 冲 to differentiate yourself from other people around. And 20’s and early 30’s might be the best period, while you have least burden.

Otherwise, you may:

  • Not able to earn opportunity, if you don’t have impressive performance;
  • Not able to leverage the opportunity earned, to best establish your best advantage over people around
  • Have  less opportunity in later period, as you don’t stand out in your early age

But…

Do remember to communicate with:

  • Family
  • Lover
  • People those who matter

Keep monitoring in case there is negative signal

About Pressure:

When there are abundant tasks at hand, people tend to get tired and feel pressure, and usually the word “balance” come up to our mind. Somehow it is good, and somehow we are setting limitation to ourselves and not willing to get out of our comfort zone.

Francis gives me pressure and insist on me doing it, most of the time, it’s because he thinks I can because he has passed over this stage. A senior people looks bigger and further than a junior one.

有太多的时候,觉得自己的工作量很大,比身边的同事多好多;也有太多的时候,怀疑自己是否应该这样坚持下去;人生在世,能够平平淡淡地活着,也是一件很幸福的事情。但是,所有的这些念头,只会一闪而过,理智还是很快地战胜了情感。我有自己的梦想与理想,如果今天我因为一时的辛苦而不坚持下去,那么一、二十年后,我将会为自己蹉跎岁月而后悔、遗憾。因此,我一直都默默地,甚至是盲目地坚守地自己的信念,总有一天,我会靠着自己的努力,实现自己的理想,身边所处的社会也会变得更加美好。

所幸,我的老板Francis对我的支持与照顾,一直激励地我前进。

Dear Jeff,

It’s happy to chat with you and enjoy 5 days experience with you in Shanxi.

You may understand more about yourself and my thinking. You are a quality person, and it’s time for you to jump to another stage of your personal development.

Spend some time to grow yourself, in a tough way, then you will be more comfortable later! I passed your stage and I support you!

Add Oil!

当然,他经常很harsh,也很tough,但我知道这对我来说,都是一种能够转化成动力的压力,没有压力,成长来得不够快。

这一切,我觉得都得感谢NLP。首先,是我很少会有低潮,其实是当我有低潮的时候,NLP能够很快地让我从中抽离,转向解决方案。Thanks to Anthony Robbins, really, for a life time.

写得挺乱的,但这一个月来我最大的感受是从Francis身上体会到的:

1. 想像力 creativity and think out of box

2. 执行力 exectuion

3. objective-oriented 以目标为导向,不达目的不罢休

如果我能做到像题目上所说的不折不扣地做好每一件事情,我觉得理想也就差不多了。

Blessing to Cindy:

Recently my dear sister Cindy has been in hard times and luckily she has  nearly gone through it and now everything seems gets back to normal. I really wish her a very happy life and strong mind. She is such a nice person with a kind heart to people around. God bless Cindy!

And thanks Schiller for the caring all along the way.

So much for today.

Jeff Wang

23 Nov 2009

What We Can Imagine, What We Can Achieve!

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