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well, it’s been a long time again…guess it is time for me to re-frame myself and get back to the right track from the current chaos.

Thanks to Anthony Robbins, I used to manage pressure well. But the pressure these days is overwhelming as I am working closely with a tough CEO who once mentioned to me that I should grow myself in a tough way. Yes, I felt that, he is now helping me that way.

Nearly all people comments themselves under high pressure, but have you been working so often in your dream, fulfilling one task in a dream, switching to another one in another dream, and they are just happening in a single night…Well, that’s my status two weeks before a couple of days ago. Ever since I was born, this is the second time I have been in such situation, the first one happened in the early days when I was working with Leo two years ago.

But I always remind myself: Jeff, you must go through it. Once you have been through, you will feel comfortable with everything. And only in this way you will become a real achiever – the one who trully makes things happen!

So frequently, I used Kobe Bryant’s “If You Really Want It” to motivate myself, I used “狠狠狠” to push myself to do those things I am not much willing to do, I kept reading one page of “The Secret Daily Teachings” to inspire myself so that I kept focusing on the positive, I used…well, way too many methods and things, as long as they help.

Big pressure, huh…I guess it was.

Such situation won’t bring me health, I felt pain at my shoulders when I went to play basketball last Saturday. God, I need some changes, and changes for the better.

Still, there was one crazy thing I have done and I especially want to mention here, which is, I went jogging the other day in the early morning at 6:10, when it was all dark outside; when I was back, the sky just started to get a bit clear, and it was at 6:30. The feeling of jogging was really great.

A lot of people around were found unhealthy these days, I think I need to pay more attention as well. Speaking of this, wishing everything goes fine with my dear friend Schiller’s father.

Take care of yourselves, my friends, wherever you are, and whoever you are, as long as you are reading here.

Time Management and Psychology
Things changed for the better in the last few days. First, I read a blog post about “lessen work time to do more important things, do more important things to less work time”. And then I got further inspiration from the book “The Road Less Traveled” when I was reading it on the bus to office. There are two kinds of people, one is taking on too much responsibilities on themselves (I am one of this type and it is called 神经官能症), while the other type is everything is other people’s responsibilities (called 人格失调症). Luckily, I am just the former one and it is far easier to cure.

By these specific and random inspiration, I got somewhere and started to relax a bit, and am getting better this week.

Sweet Moments
Last Friday was my birthday. Apart from my girlfriend’s cool gifts, well, I really love them, I have also received special blessings from my dear friends, Schiller and Cindy, with Olivia and later Jessie and Abby. Both Seeds and NewStage are cool. I love you guys! Thanks!

Yesterday suddenly received a phone call from Karen, who told me that she felt what I shared with her before very useful at work, and also gave me a kind offer that I could stay at their family if I drop by SZ next time, as their new house has a spare room. Sweet, isn’t it. Thanks.

Systems Thinking
Systems Thinking is the best things I have learned from the Young Manager Workshop, which was remarked by the trainer the must-have gear to top management. When thinking a thing, don’t just think about ourselves, but also consider the other people/factors in our systems.

Well, so much for this, piece by piece, but I think I can conclude in following: I am a not-very-smart man who is working hard with faith and determination to go through the hard times with purpose of gearing up myself a person who is able to make things happen. Always think positive and solutions will come!

Jeff Wang
What We Can Imagine, What We Can Achieve!
13 Jan 2010






Albert Ching

Successful people looks ahead, not just what it is  now, but what it could and what it will be  later in 5 years, 10 years.

They see possibilities of the world, possibilities of the industry and then be the leader of the evolution. It’s a bit like Carly Fiorina, she sees the possibilities of people, and help people  see it, thus motivate people around.

Relevant Thinking:

Think Out of the Box and Habitize it!


About Balance and 冲

Career is not like acquiring knowledge in school. Why?

  • Books are there
  • Opportunities won’t knock your door twice. And people have on average 7 opportunities in a life time.

Therefore, we need to 冲 at our best age and seize one opportunity. And if we don’t catch one at this age, we may probably have less of them when we get older.

You need to 冲 to differentiate yourself from other people around. And 20’s and early 30’s might be the best period, while you have least burden.

Otherwise, you may:

  • Not able to earn opportunity, if you don’t have impressive performance;
  • Not able to leverage the opportunity earned, to best establish your best advantage over people around
  • Have  less opportunity in later period, as you don’t stand out in your early age


Do remember to communicate with:

  • Family
  • Lover
  • People those who matter

Keep monitoring in case there is negative signal

About Pressure:

When there are abundant tasks at hand, people tend to get tired and feel pressure, and usually the word “balance” come up to our mind. Somehow it is good, and somehow we are setting limitation to ourselves and not willing to get out of our comfort zone.

Francis gives me pressure and insist on me doing it, most of the time, it’s because he thinks I can because he has passed over this stage. A senior people looks bigger and further than a junior one.



Dear Jeff,

It’s happy to chat with you and enjoy 5 days experience with you in Shanxi.

You may understand more about yourself and my thinking. You are a quality person, and it’s time for you to jump to another stage of your personal development.

Spend some time to grow yourself, in a tough way, then you will be more comfortable later! I passed your stage and I support you!

Add Oil!


这一切,我觉得都得感谢NLP。首先,是我很少会有低潮,其实是当我有低潮的时候,NLP能够很快地让我从中抽离,转向解决方案。Thanks to Anthony Robbins, really, for a life time.


1. 想像力 creativity and think out of box

2. 执行力 exectuion

3. objective-oriented 以目标为导向,不达目的不罢休


Blessing to Cindy:

Recently my dear sister Cindy has been in hard times and luckily she has  nearly gone through it and now everything seems gets back to normal. I really wish her a very happy life and strong mind. She is such a nice person with a kind heart to people around. God bless Cindy!

And thanks Schiller for the caring all along the way.

So much for today.

Jeff Wang

23 Nov 2009

What We Can Imagine, What We Can Achieve!

Jeff, I am leaving.

This is the first thing I heard this morning when I arrived at HK office. And too bad, it was from Leo Lau, the one who means a lot to me in the last two years, the one who grows me up and fighting in my interest when I need him.

He is my direct supervisor, who has been tough to me, especially the very first year we worked together.

He is my mentor, who has been so nice to me, helping me go through difficulties and tackle challenge.

He is my bro, who has been fighting with me together to build a great team and deliver professional and high quality service.

He is my friend, who discusses personal issue with me and gives me heart-to-heart suggestion.

He is, just too much for me, and without him, Jeff is not today’s Jeff.


By Mr.6

Source:  http://mr6.cc/?p=2570

昨天在《Popular Science》有篇對學習力很重要的文章,它引述這期《Psychological Science》期刊的一篇研究,這篇研究打翻了大家習慣的學習法:第一課應該要是最簡單的,第二課比第一課難,到了第100課最難;我們的學習,應該從「簡單」上到「最難」,一步一步來,一天比一天難?

科學家找來一群小朋友作實驗,讓他們學三樣從沒碰過的事情,第一樣事情,從最簡單的開始教起,慢慢的由簡入難,第二樣事情,則從最艱難的開始,再慢 慢的教到簡單的,第三樣事情則隨便亂跳,一下簡單的,一下難的,結果科學家發現,有些課程似乎「沒差別」,先教難的簡單的都一樣,但有些課程出現差異,而 且都是「第二組」的效果最好








一,重覆練習:困難問題的解法,很有可能可以再應用到簡單問題的解法,而且難題都解了,簡單的問題就不需要指導 了,也就是說,一旦好不容易學會了一個難題,再回到簡單的問題時,就可以多一次「自己復習」的機會,但反之往往不亦然,難的問題永遠需要再多學一點點才能 完整,永遠都在上坡,永遠都不能復習。

二,跳脫死模:困難的問題由於過於困難,往往可以瞬間促進學生們去跳脫「原本的思考方式」,學生以後看題目,就 比較不會照字、照系統來看,改為習慣用抽象(abstract)的方式來思考全局。雖然仍舊稚氣,但至少拉得非常遠、非常高,這種「跳脫」本身也是一種訓 練,讓學生接下來再去解那些比較簡單但也有點難度的問題時,可以用一樣的「抽象」方式來思考該怎麼回答這題,學生的格局可以瞬間拉高拉大。










Today is a day full of sadness and prayer for the best.

Too many people left this world in the past week and all of them are part of our family.

The quake, took too many people, took too many lives, took too much “too many”, only sadness left.

But here, we have LOVE. Through the diaster, we see LOVE, we see LOVE is everywhere. How I wish I could be there helping out. There could be too many wishes, but fact is fact, and life got to go on.

After the tribute, let’s unite as one, do the most thing for those who left, help their surviving families. Help them grow up, support them, bulid them home, offer them our hands and let them feel our LOVE.

There is so much we can do to help. But action speaks louder than words. Donate money, donate blood, pray for them, etc.

Got too much to say, but too hard to convey by words.

In a word, today is a special day, a day to remember, and a day of sadness, while a day of GREATEST LOVE!

Fill this world with LOVE!


19 May, 2008



今天,我看了一个视频,主题是“华人纵横天下”,里面是美国加州阿姆斯壮大学校长黄天中的专访。这个人的经历都很amazing,也是一个很值得尊敬的一个人。但令我感触最深的不是他所推崇的孔子的“有教无类”,或者是他创新性的“Impossible=I’m possible”,而是他说的那句“树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待”。他像其它很多人一样,都跟自己的父母说“等我长大了我会带给你们幸福”,然而等到他真的有能力做到的时候,亲人已经不在了。好可惜!




26 August, 2007

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